Connecting Men Through Nature, Activity and Reflection
Set in a woodland and meadow environment in north Norfolk, Fire Lodges are monthly gatherings where men come together to connect with each other, spend time in nature and explore what it means to live a healthier, more fulfilling life. Through nature-based activities, shared experiences and meaningful conversation, Fire Lodges create space to slow down, reflect and find fresh perspectives.
Being surrounded by nature is central to the experience. The setting provides space to explore, take part in outdoor activities and enjoy the benefits of spending time away from everyday routines. There are also indoor facilities available if the weather turns, including a wood-burning stove, so the gathering can continue whatever the conditions.
The benefits of connecting with nature
Spending time outdoors is proven to have a powerful effect on our physical and mental wellbeing. Being among trees, walking through woodland and engaging with the natural world can help us step away from the pressures of everyday life, clear our heads and find a greater sense of perspective.
At a Fire Lodge, nature isn’t simply a backdrop. It’s an important part of the experience, offering opportunities for activity, reflection and a deeper connection with the world around us. Nature provides a different environment in which to think, reflect and connect. Away from the usual distractions and demands, we can become more aware of ourselves, our relationships and the things that matter to us.
A different kind of men's group
MensCraft offers a range of services and programmes that support men. Fire Lodges offer something a little different: an opportunity to explore wellbeing, personal growth and connection before, during or beyond times of difficulty.
They bring men together in a welcoming environment where everyone has something to contribute and nobody is expected to have all the answers. Whether you’re looking to make friends, spend more time outdoors, explore new activities or simply take a little time for yourself, Fire Lodges offer an opportunity to do so.
Men are encouraged to share their experiences, hopes and concerns, as well as listen to the experiences of others. Together, we can explore how we live our lives, build healthier relationships, develop resilience and find ways to meet life’s challenges.
The power of sharing experiences: Council
One of the most important parts of a Fire Lodge is Council. Council is an ancient practice of speaking and listening that is now used in communities around the world. It provides an opportunity for everyone in the circle to have their voice heard, without judgement or the need to offer advice or solutions. We take time to listen to one another with compassion, openness and respect.
The practice recognises that we all hold a part of the truth and that every man’s story has value. By sharing something of our own lives and listening to others, we can discover new insights, develop greater understanding and build trust. Council can help us reflect on our own experiences, recognise opportunities for personal healing and consider how we contribute to the wellbeing of those around us.
What happens at a Fire Lodge?
Each Fire Lodge runs from 10.30am to 4pm on the first Sunday of the month.
The day follows a flexible programme, combining shared activities, time outdoors and opportunities for conversation and reflection.
A typical Lodge includes:
- Check-in: An opportunity to arrive, settle in and share how we’re feeling.
- Shared lunch: Time to enjoy food together and get to know one another.
- Council: An hour of speaking and listening, with compassion and openness.
- Nature-based activities: One or two activities that vary from month to month, offering different ways to engage with the natural environment and each other.
- Check-out: A chance to reflect on the day and bring the gathering to a close.
The programme and timings may vary slightly between gatherings, so check the details advertised for each individual Lodge.
Who are Fire Lodge's for?
Fire Lodges are open to any man over 18 who wants to deepen his connection with himself, with other men and with nature.
You don’t need previous experience of nature-based activities, group work or Council. Nor do you need to be going through a particularly difficult time. What matters is a willingness to take part, share and listen with honesty, integrity, an open mind and an open heart.
Some men come for the outdoor activities, others for the opportunity to meet like-minded people or enjoy meaningful conversation. Everyone is welcome.
Dates and costs
The current series of Fire Lodges runs from November through to April, with gatherings taking place on the first Sunday of each month.
The cost includes lunch, light refreshments and all activities:
- Standard: £20 – for men in paid employment.
- Concession: £10 – for men who are unwaged or on a low income (below minimum wage).
- Pay it forward: £25 – a little extra to help make Fire Lodges accessible to men who may be less able to pay.
Join us at a MensCraft Fire Lodge
Connect with yourself, with other men and with nature in the beautiful Norfolk countryside.